I Rape Her Because She Took Me For A Fool

Hello Readers,

Please keep me anonymous because of the nature of the message/experience that I want to share. I will go straight to the point. There is this useless girl that i met through a whatsapp chat group 2 months back and one thing led to another and we started dating. she lives around agric at ikorodu while i stay at isolo. I asked her out and she accepted. Between the time I met her and now, I have spent not less than 50k on her. she is so money conscious and kept demanding 5k and 10k from me always like I am father Christmas.
Because I love her, I was giving her. I have been inviting her to my place but she is always busy but luckily her aunty traveled for wedding last weekend and she came to my house yesterday to spend some time. she said that she needs 5k for her transport before she would come so i used ATM to transfer 3k and begged her to come that i will balance her before she go.
Can you imagine that this girl came to my house and started acting up after leading me on and massaging my dick into erection. we were romancing and she didn't stop me, she gave me breast and allowed me to finger her. when my erection was good enough after romancing her and even sucking her, she refused that we cant have sex, that it is too early. i was dumbfounded. i thought she was joking so i was petting her and telling her sweet words but she just fling my hand away from her and started dressing up. I begged and begged her because my erection was already hard but she refuse. I spent close to 3 hours begging, she refuse and say she want to go that i should give her 2k.
That was when I saw that she was taking me for a fool. i never knew that she was that wicked and heartless. i asked her why she let me suck her and why she was massaging my dick since she is not ready to sleep with me. she say it is too early and that she is not ready that i should control my penis. I was really angry and i felt used so i slapped her and did it by force. I still gave her the 2k and threw her out of my house. she has been sending me curses and such curses are empty and her threats useless because even God knows that what she did was wicked. he threat messages since yesterday night is up to 25 but i dont care. I honestly dont feel bad one bit because she is very stupid and wicked to think that a full fledged healthy grown man with blood running through his veins is a joke for her to toy and play with.
I want to use this opportunity to warn girls who have no intention of being with a guy yet, you ask him for money and spend it anyhow like he is your father, you dont have any interest in going down with a guy but you are comfortable enough to hold his dick and give him breast to suck. then when its time for action, you come up with silly stories. any sexual act from that point on is not rape. it is simply violent sex and you definitely deserve anything you get from that point. many guys including many of my friends has suffered this in the hands of girls who take guys for fools. this is my experience yesterday and i dnt owe anybody an apology.

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NO SEXUAL SATISFACTION.. HIS PENIS IS AS SMALL AS MY INDEX FINGER . .

 I am two years in marriage with no sexual satisfaction. The biggest pain i have in all of this was that i was deceived into the marriage by that theory of no sex before marriage. I am not questioning God nor the Bible. But i feel we need to define issues more clearly so that we don’t get into trouble, the type i am in.
I met my husband when we were serving in Awka. He gave me a born again façade. I am also a Christian, better still, a struggling Christian. I know Christ; I know what is right and try to do even though I still miss my steps, just like any other person, once in a while. On account of our Christian faith, I don’t pester him for sex. I know what the scriptures say about this.
We got married about eight months later. The first sign of the coming problem was that throughout our courtship, my husband would never be private with me. he would never ask for sex not try to touch me. Not that i am a pervert that wants sex before marriage, but it is 'normal' to expect a guy you are dating to make moves and you the woman will say no, till marriage day. This guy never made any attempt and give me the luxury of saying no. I still want to play the Christian. He would not allow me. He made sure that place is a no go area. I had some fears with me that is this real. But …Every time he would say till marriage. Jesus said... the Bible says … I never knew this is jibiti Ibadan. Ibadan guy show me o!
One day my elder sister in Abuja asked me that are we sexually compatible? I said the guy no dey ask me for sex o. She said there could be danger in that. Maybe he wants to trick me into marriage. Sis told me that the two of us must stand before each other and see wetin we carry individually. She said once our parents agreed that we can marry and they sign to it, wedding is almost complete and the rest is just noise making through party.
After we did our introduction and engagement on a Wednesday, my husband was the first to disappear, because i had told him he would shine my congo tonight. He ran away. I went to his house, he was with his friends and would not come home. Please don’t think i am a pervert or desirous for sex. No. Just want to be sure i am doing the right thing. I have heard of so many men who tricked women into marriage only to find out that they are impotent.
I went to complaint to the wife of my pastor. She said it is not right for me to be pushing him to sex. Since i know him as a Christian, maybe he was living to that standard. At the risk of been seen as a sexual pervert, i held my peace. But my elder sister was always asking have we shine our congo (that is her language) I will say no, he is not even making any push. There were times we would sit somewhere and i tried to touch his penis stylishly, he would ward me off. I was like this born again sha!
We did our engagement on Wednesday and wedding on Thursday in Ibadan. I became wild with expectations. Right inside the car from the reception, i was trying to arouse him. I think this is normal. He was stiff. I was like what now? Is this not the wedding day you have been talking about? We are moving right into the bedroom immediately we get home. Come and finish me and i finish you. he was not amused. I was like ...heee!
We got home, he sat with his friends while i walked to the bedroom. he would not come in, I even heard his friends laughingly telling him to go and mark register. What was he doing outside. I heard them. He sat there.

After a while,. I called him on his phone that I was inside. He came in at about 8pm. I was in bed, naked. He sat on the edge of the bed and started some stories on how great the reception was.. I was just looking at him, with fear and trepidation within me. After a while, he looked for my rapa, covered himself, pull off his trouser and put off the light and wanted to climb on me. That was when I went wild. I stood up and shouted no way. Today, I have to see wetin you dey hide in the last 8 months. You got to see me and I got to see you. I told him point blank that sex to me is not just climbing on me. There are procedures. Immediately I put on the light and took the rapa from him, he lied on the bed, facing down. I told him I was ready to shout to everybody if he did not stand up and face me.
That was when he sat up. Uncle Bola, come and see what this man carried as penis, its smaller than my last finger. It was barely visible. I broke down in tears. For a whole week I did not speak with him. The pain with me, till now is that he tricked me into marriage. And I fell for this because I was obeying the scriptures, that the bed must be undefiled. That our body is the temple of the living God. I have been duped by Ibadan guy. Uncle Bola. Is this Christianity? Is this what i will face for the rest of my life? Why was i tricked into this marriage?
This is my second year in marriage. No sexual satisfaction. No conception till now. I don’t even know where the problem is coming from. I know I can conceive because in my past life, I was once pregnant. Thank God for redemption. I don’t ever feel him moving into me. It’s like he is scratching my congo, supplementing that with his fingers. It is me always asking for sex. He will never make any move. And its always climbing, climbing. And there he would be at the gate of my congo. I don’t know how to tell it. I don’t know how to go about this..

Where do I go from here? Please Help
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My Wife is Always Sexually Responsive After I Beat her up

We have been married for four years now but I have come to the conclusion that I have made a terrible mistake marrying my wife. 

Despite her good family background and good education, she has a problem keeping her volatile temper in check.

At the drop of a hat, she blows up and levels all sorts of accusations against me. Apart from her verbal abuse, she’s recently resorted to being physical, but I soon tried to curb that.

The first time she raised her hands to me, I really beat some common sense into her.

She’s tried it a couple of times since then and I’ve given her the beating she deserves. I am not a violent person but some women really bring out the violence in you.

Surprisingly, I’ve also discovered that my wife is more sexually responsive after I have roughened her up.

This has excited me a bit and encouraged me to beat her more, though not to the extent that I would harm her.

Do you think she is one of these type of women who like violent sex?

Married people in the house, please help 

I'M HAVING FEELINGS FOR MY EX DESPITE THE FACT THAT I LOVE MY WIFE

Hi

I’ve been married for 4 years and with my wife for a total of 10 years but on and off throughout our relationship I keep thinking about my ex, not just the odd thought but excessively. I dream about her every couple of months, I don’t dream about anyone or anything else on a regular basis like this.

I know I still have feelings for my ex whilst I do love my wife, I just don’t know how to forget about the ex and move on. This is becoming a really big issue for me now as its been 10 years of regular thought and dreams and I just want to put her out of my mind and move on. I should probably also mention that my ex is now married too, and we both have children.

What do I do to move on? Do I talk to my ex? What if she feels the same? What if she doesn’t? Usually I can make my own decisions and have control over my feelings but this one won’t go away.
Any advice would be appreciated as I fear this will eventually drive a wedge between my wife and I as my feelings for my ex seem to get stronger and stronger the more time that passes.
Usually it will take a few days or weeks to get her out of my head entirely but then I’ll dream about her or drive past her (we live within a couple of streets so cannot avoid it) and I’m back to square one and the cycle continues.

My wife and I get on well, I still love her very much and we still laugh together so I don’t think that part needs more focus, I just need to find a way to forget about my ex once and for all. I wish I could speak to her as I’m sure she’d tell me she isn’t interested and that’ll give me some sort of closure but that option is out the window as it could cause serious reprocussions which I don’t want. I need some other way of closure
PLEASE ADVICE

SHOULD SHE HIDE HER BLOOD GROUP TO CONTINUE WITH WEDDING PLANNING?

Good evening laila, pls am sending this email on behalf of my friend, she asked me for advice and i suggested we bring it here as we are both blog readers (hide our identities tho).
Shes 32 and there is pressure on her to get married. She met a guy and they got along so well but the first question he asked her was what her blood group is and she answered AA (which she thought she was because thats what her sch id card read after test was done in school) the guy said he is AS and he is required to marry AA so the wedding plans started, so there was a time she had a lump in her breast and she went to the hospital for treatment and another test was carried out just for the doctor to tell her shes AS...she has gone to 3 different hospitals it all came out AS . Shes so confused as for what to do....our other friends suggests she doesnt tell her fiance and just go ahead with the wedding plans. I dont know what advice to give her. Pls laila blog readers what do u think?

AM MARRIED BUT HE KEEPS DISTURBING ME, PLEASE I NEED MATURE ADVICE.

I am 32 and presently in a very bad marriage. I got married in 2008. There is this guy in my church I knew before I ever thought of meeting hubby, who has been a very good friend (platonic ), though he wanted a relationship back then but because I was very young and scared of my parents, I rejected him.

He wanted a relationship with me again during my UNI days but I refused cause he looks like a playboy to me. 2 years back, he started pressurizing me for a relationship again, though he lives abroad. 

Unfortunately, he lost his wife in January, and for the past 4 months he has been disturbing me to leave hubby for him. Matter of fact, I'm beginning to have feelings for him but I'm so scared. Remember I said he looked like play boy to me back then cause he is too handsome. 

I need mature advise on this as I don't know if I can cope with him or just stay put with hubby and keep on hoping for the best.

I AM TROUBLED BY MY SPIRIT HUSBAND

I met my ex-boyfriend in NYSC camp five years ago and it didn't take me long to fall in love with him. After camp, we posted to different areas but it didn't stop us from making out time to see each other at least three times a month. In these times we stayed together, we made love regularly but i never once got pregnant despite the fact that we never used protection.
One day, he asked me if i was dating someone else? I was shocked and denied it. He then told me that a man was always visiting him in the dream and warning him to stay away from me, that I was his wife. I was forced to confess to him that i had a spirit husband which was always troubling me, but because i had not seen him in my dreams, i just assumed that he was no longer interested in me.

My ex laughed and told me that i shouldn't worry, that nothing was going to separate us.
Brave words. Five years on, I am still single while he has married someone else and i have no suitor. My ex keeps telling me that he didn't know exactly why we broke up, but it just happened. The day we broke up, for the first time in years, I saw the spirit husband clearly. He was smiling and he said to me, "you think you found love?"
Sir, I swear with all i hold dear that what I am saying is the truth. 5 years on I have no suitor, and for some strange reason the ones that come don't stay. I have had a few relationships but once i have sex with them, i lose interest in the men, or vice versa. I know it is wrong to fornicate so i have stopped because sin feeds this spirit husband demon.
Please house I don't now if you guys can recommend a good prayer house. I have tried MFM and have gone to prayer city several times but the problem is still there.
I am so depressed and i need help because i don't know why God is keeping silent.