My Wife is Always Sexually Responsive After I Beat her up

We have been married for four years now but I have come to the conclusion that I have made a terrible mistake marrying my wife. 

Despite her good family background and good education, she has a problem keeping her volatile temper in check.

At the drop of a hat, she blows up and levels all sorts of accusations against me. Apart from her verbal abuse, she’s recently resorted to being physical, but I soon tried to curb that.

The first time she raised her hands to me, I really beat some common sense into her.

She’s tried it a couple of times since then and I’ve given her the beating she deserves. I am not a violent person but some women really bring out the violence in you.

Surprisingly, I’ve also discovered that my wife is more sexually responsive after I have roughened her up.

This has excited me a bit and encouraged me to beat her more, though not to the extent that I would harm her.

Do you think she is one of these type of women who like violent sex?

Married people in the house, please help 

I'M HAVING FEELINGS FOR MY EX DESPITE THE FACT THAT I LOVE MY WIFE

Hi

I’ve been married for 4 years and with my wife for a total of 10 years but on and off throughout our relationship I keep thinking about my ex, not just the odd thought but excessively. I dream about her every couple of months, I don’t dream about anyone or anything else on a regular basis like this.

I know I still have feelings for my ex whilst I do love my wife, I just don’t know how to forget about the ex and move on. This is becoming a really big issue for me now as its been 10 years of regular thought and dreams and I just want to put her out of my mind and move on. I should probably also mention that my ex is now married too, and we both have children.

What do I do to move on? Do I talk to my ex? What if she feels the same? What if she doesn’t? Usually I can make my own decisions and have control over my feelings but this one won’t go away.
Any advice would be appreciated as I fear this will eventually drive a wedge between my wife and I as my feelings for my ex seem to get stronger and stronger the more time that passes.
Usually it will take a few days or weeks to get her out of my head entirely but then I’ll dream about her or drive past her (we live within a couple of streets so cannot avoid it) and I’m back to square one and the cycle continues.

My wife and I get on well, I still love her very much and we still laugh together so I don’t think that part needs more focus, I just need to find a way to forget about my ex once and for all. I wish I could speak to her as I’m sure she’d tell me she isn’t interested and that’ll give me some sort of closure but that option is out the window as it could cause serious reprocussions which I don’t want. I need some other way of closure
PLEASE ADVICE

SHOULD SHE HIDE HER BLOOD GROUP TO CONTINUE WITH WEDDING PLANNING?

Good evening laila, pls am sending this email on behalf of my friend, she asked me for advice and i suggested we bring it here as we are both blog readers (hide our identities tho).
Shes 32 and there is pressure on her to get married. She met a guy and they got along so well but the first question he asked her was what her blood group is and she answered AA (which she thought she was because thats what her sch id card read after test was done in school) the guy said he is AS and he is required to marry AA so the wedding plans started, so there was a time she had a lump in her breast and she went to the hospital for treatment and another test was carried out just for the doctor to tell her shes AS...she has gone to 3 different hospitals it all came out AS . Shes so confused as for what to do....our other friends suggests she doesnt tell her fiance and just go ahead with the wedding plans. I dont know what advice to give her. Pls laila blog readers what do u think?

AM MARRIED BUT HE KEEPS DISTURBING ME, PLEASE I NEED MATURE ADVICE.

I am 32 and presently in a very bad marriage. I got married in 2008. There is this guy in my church I knew before I ever thought of meeting hubby, who has been a very good friend (platonic ), though he wanted a relationship back then but because I was very young and scared of my parents, I rejected him.

He wanted a relationship with me again during my UNI days but I refused cause he looks like a playboy to me. 2 years back, he started pressurizing me for a relationship again, though he lives abroad. 

Unfortunately, he lost his wife in January, and for the past 4 months he has been disturbing me to leave hubby for him. Matter of fact, I'm beginning to have feelings for him but I'm so scared. Remember I said he looked like play boy to me back then cause he is too handsome. 

I need mature advise on this as I don't know if I can cope with him or just stay put with hubby and keep on hoping for the best.

I AM TROUBLED BY MY SPIRIT HUSBAND

I met my ex-boyfriend in NYSC camp five years ago and it didn't take me long to fall in love with him. After camp, we posted to different areas but it didn't stop us from making out time to see each other at least three times a month. In these times we stayed together, we made love regularly but i never once got pregnant despite the fact that we never used protection.
One day, he asked me if i was dating someone else? I was shocked and denied it. He then told me that a man was always visiting him in the dream and warning him to stay away from me, that I was his wife. I was forced to confess to him that i had a spirit husband which was always troubling me, but because i had not seen him in my dreams, i just assumed that he was no longer interested in me.

My ex laughed and told me that i shouldn't worry, that nothing was going to separate us.
Brave words. Five years on, I am still single while he has married someone else and i have no suitor. My ex keeps telling me that he didn't know exactly why we broke up, but it just happened. The day we broke up, for the first time in years, I saw the spirit husband clearly. He was smiling and he said to me, "you think you found love?"
Sir, I swear with all i hold dear that what I am saying is the truth. 5 years on I have no suitor, and for some strange reason the ones that come don't stay. I have had a few relationships but once i have sex with them, i lose interest in the men, or vice versa. I know it is wrong to fornicate so i have stopped because sin feeds this spirit husband demon.
Please house I don't now if you guys can recommend a good prayer house. I have tried MFM and have gone to prayer city several times but the problem is still there.
I am so depressed and i need help because i don't know why God is keeping silent.